How to get sharper eyes in your portraits

portraits-how-to-get-sharp-eyes-2Ah, the eyes!  From day one as a mother, I would gaze into my children’s eyes. It became a point of connection. Hard to quite put into words how much you fall in love with the way they light up when they smile, tear up when they’re in pain or trying so hard to be brave, the far away glances as they are deep in thought and of course those long long lashes! (We won’t focus on those angry scowls accompanied with the pursed, pouty lips for this post!) In portrait photography, it is the eyes that draw you in. They can tell a captivating and emotive story.

A few years back in my portrait business, though the portraits I took were okay, they often lacked that ‘wow’ factor. I would long for the tack-sharp eyes and blurry backgrounds that I would see other photographers achieve. What was I missing? I suppose I assumed this sparkly-eyed look was a result of good post-editing and a healthy budget for the right gear and editing programs! Though this can certainly be part of it, I do not believe they are the only factors.
So, you want the tack-sharp eyes, the soft, creamy skin and the blurry background? This is a good starting place! Here are a few starting tips that I hope you can use to add that extra dimension (aka Va Va Voom!) to your portraits.


I am a huge advocate of being able to achieve beautiful photos without investing your entire life savings! However if you are serious about portrait photography and on a tighter budget, I would encourage one simple investment that I believe you will NEVER EVER regret – purchase a prime lens. The most basic upgrade for me was a Canon EF 50mm f/1.8 Lens, at around $100 this will do the job very nicely and will produce the beautiful crisp subject (child’s eyes) and a soft, blurry background. Very basically, most kit lenses (the 18-55mm lens that came with my DSLR) don’t let in the amount of light needed for these results. I wish that I’d made this simple investment years ago!


Perhaps you get tired of hearing this word! But, it is your best friend. In this case I am talking about natural light. For both indoor and outdoor shots, if there is enough light then it will allow you to use the optimal settings for a great photograph and make post-editing far easier. Of course, finding your available light will differ.



In both the first and above image, the child was indoors, facing a window but not in direct sunlight.  You notice how the light bounces off her eyes. This is what you are looking for.


When nature provides you with a giant soft box, take it! You will get great results on an overcast day, so don’t call off your portrait session just yet! You may have to adjust your ISO setting, but not enough to cause noise. Be aware that even on an overcast day, such as the image below, you can still have unflattering shadows, so a little trick, for the light to be diffused evenly and to get the light into their eyes is to have your child look up at you.



When the sun is shining bright, look for spaces that are shaded. Open shade will mean that there is still plenty of natural light yet it is not dark. You are eliminating the sunlight hitting the skin, (or any part of your child) to avoid harsh contrasty shadows but this will also help avoid the squinty-eyed-look! Examples of this would be a covered porch, or a bright alleyway like the images below. I will still move around and direct them to look at me to find that sweet spot where the light seems to dance in their eyes!



The garage provides a surprisingly great area of open shade!

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If you are just starting out, I suggest using the Aperture Priority mode on your DSLR rather than full in manual. Once you feel comfortable using these settings then you could progress to manual.  I aim to have the Aperture set close to f/2. Remember that anything lower than this will maybe only have one eye in focus, this can create a beautiful artsy close-up, but you certainly won’t want this for all your portraits. Think variety!

Another important tip is to make sure you have your camera’s focal point (AF point selection) set on manual, not auto. You can then have full control over what you desire to be in focus when you look through the view finder. Read more about AF point selection here.


Even though your background will be out of focus, you may still have distracting items in the background. For these close-up portraits where you want to focus on the eyes, try to find the plainest of backdrop with little to nothing in the background and make sure the child is adequately away from the background. Different colored backgrounds can also work to your advantage, bringing out an extra pop of color of the child’s eyes. You can be highly creative with this!



To get those lovely crisp eyes, learn to push the shutter release slowly so your lens can fix on and adjust to the focal point.

On a less practical note, if there’s one thing I keep learning over and over, is to relax and not always feel so rushed with sessions, even when I’m just photographing my own family! Ultimately it’s then easy to become flustered and this doesn’t help your child or yourself! When I would have portrait sessions with clients, I often felt insecure that the longer it took me to get the shot right, the less trust they’d have in my ability. But this pressure (the pressure that we probably create ourselves!) would lead me to forget what I really did know and I’d rush through the session, giving up on these details such as finding the best light. And these skills, even if they can be retained in your head, will only come more naturally through practice. We ALL have to start somewhere and we are ALWAYS learning new things.



12 thoughts on “How to get sharper eyes in your portraits”

  1. Hello
    I am a mom of an 18 month old baby girl. I so want to invest in a prime lens, but I still haven’t figured the Manual Mode with the kit lens? I was thinking I will first nail the Manual mode and a prize for the learning I will buy the lens. Reading through the blog I am so tempted to jump right in a buy the lens. Can you suggest me how to start using the manual mode.

    1. Hi! This is a great goal and motivation! I can definitely offer some starting points. In general, presuming you are set to Manual Mode you will first set your ISO (sensor speed) depending on your available light. Next you set your aperture (the general kit lenses lowest setting is usually f/4.5) The lower the number the blurrier your background will be. Next is your shutter speed, this is where you have to be willing to experiment a little! In your case, photographing a toddler, you will need a faster shutter speed so your girl is in focus. Try starting at 1/125th of a second and go higher if she is out of focus. An additional function for correct exposure is keeping your meter at 0. If you prefer your photos a little brighter put it +1, or -1 for darker. E.g., ISO 200, f/4.5, 1/125. The general rule applies to a prime lens however the prime lens lets in a lot more light than a kit lens. I hope this is helpful and that you achieve your goal. Make sure to post up a link to your pics!

      1. I totally appreciate the reply. And I think it makes a bit more sense now. I will definitely send links of my pictures soon. Hoping against hope that I will start seeing a leap in my skills this year. 😊

      2. This is great! The more familiar you are with your camera the less intimidating it will feel! This week it snowed here;I don’t have experience with shooting in the snow, but I gave it a go, not every shot worked out but I learned a few little lessons and next time it snows I’ll be a little more comfortable. Can’t wait to see how you progress!

      3. Hello there,
        Have taken the courage to post my first three pictures of the year. After a chat with you, I seriously have taken a few better photos. Will send you the link for that later one. Meanwhile, please do check these pictures here.
        One more thing, why do I get a completely black screen sometimes. Right now I am blindly turning the ISO and shutter speed without real understanding. So, when shooting some pictures, all I get is blackened shadows, that are very very bad. Outdoor pictures at ISO 200 and shutter speed 1/250 turned out great. I am happy with those. Thanks a ton, and sorry for bombarding your reply box.

        Also, I am linking your article in my next post. Hope that you will be okay with that. :)

      4. I’m not sure on the black screen, is there an error message coming up? If you are shooting indoors then I suggest setting the ISO higher, try 800. Also, if possible I suggest turning off the indoor lights which have a tendency to make everything appear yellow, then take your (adorable!) girl closer to a window so that the light from the window will be sufficient (but do not stand facing the window, she will be a silhouette! Stand to the side.) In manual mode you can also set the white balance (WB) to suit whether you are indoors or outdoors. Does this help a little? Keep taking pics!

      5. Hello again,
        I think I am starting to figure out a little about ISO – Shutter Speed combo. My combination was all wrong and once I started trying out various combinations, I was able to get some better results. I am reasonably happy with the last three set of photos. Do you have any suggestions as to where I can send the links rather than bombarding your comment box?

      6. Great news! Yes, you can click on ‘About” in the main menu, then ‘Get in touch’ from the submenu and email the links directly. Thanks for the follow up!

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